We live in what I call Suburbia U.S.A. Don't get me wrong it is a beautiful town with everything you could imagaine possible for a child. However it would never be where I would have seen myself raising my kids. They have everything at their fingertips. We have one of the best educational systems in the country, every organized sport, a community center with every class imaginable and every type of religious church you could imagaine. I have met some of the best hearted people in the world here, however again sometimes I just want to pack it all up. Our town is somewhat affluent, however we are not. The boys always say ,"I wish we were rich," with which I reply "we are rich, we are rich in love." The statementt always canders up a half grin with a shake of the head.
So today I found myself back in that place of dreaming of being on a farm with the boys climbing trees and playing with chickens. Just when I hit that point of certain sadness, I saw something I have not seen in a long time, four of my boys, the 2,4,6 and 8 year olds deciced they were going to build on their swingset and then paint it. This is no small feat for these four to work together. But I saw them hammer, and drill and then paint there little hearts out. At the end they called me out to see their work. It brought tears to my eyes. It was not the red paint missing in many places, but that for three or so hours, I was where I always dreamed of being. I was in that place where the boys work to accomplish something together. There was no Wii, no football and no material things, just 4 boys with a dream of a red swingset.
After this amazing moment I decided I wanted to tell the world just how happy I was today. But first I needed to check two of the three blogs that I follow and the real reason why I decided to try my hand at this blogging thing. My favorite blog is If you think our hands are full....you should see our hearts. In her blog she talks about some amazing women she has encountered, one being another blogger Christina. I believe she is the same woman who writes Hands full and loving it mostly my other favorite blog. Anyways long story short I am in awe of these two women and in this great big world they are in awe of each other. Just when life seems to be harder then usual, God has something planned to remind you of just how lucky we all are.....
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I have been following Christina's blog and I saw your comment on her blog and found the other blog you follow and wanted to thank you for it. I will start reading it. I have 5 kids with twins on the way, but I blog about books and health and homeschooling and whatever else seems interesting to me. Nice to sort of meet you. I have a friend out here in Utah with 5 boys, and I am in awe of her and now I am in awe of you in Mass. I grew up with 4 brothers in a row so I know how wild a boy family can be!!
ReplyDeleteHey -- Lana and I are just doing the best we can with what we've been given, just like you. Thank you for the compliment, though, it really made my day.
ReplyDeleteThat swingset project sounds awesome. You're a wonderful mother for letting them go at it with paint for so long.